love is weak.” This is pure BS – you cannot change someone. People change on their own if they
love you. Also, people don’t understand that it takes immense strength to choose yourself over
someone that you love. If they are not giving you the right respect, it still takes a lot of strength
to walk out.
So what does it tell you about love? When you love someone you are willing to put up with even
their worst habits. If we let aside the extreme bad behavior, most of the times we fall in love with
people we don’t completely understand. After the honeymoon period is over, their little things
start irking us.
At this point you ask yourself two questions – am I getting the behavior that I deserve? Yes? Then
learn to accept their little quirks. No? Then can I help them see their error? But at the end of the
day it all comes to acceptance.
Every person wants to be loved and accepted for who they are. If someone knows you accept
them, they might want to change for you.